Shelby Goldstein Shelby Goldstein

Summer is the Sexy Narcissist You Need to Stop Dating

Summer tells us everything we want to hear, with all the promises of excitement and novelty you’ve been waiting for all year. Sit back baby, let Daddy Summer take you for the ride of your life... But our relationship with summer can be low-key toxic as fuck if we transition into it in a vulnerable state. In this edition of Hot Takes, we’re talking about why summer is the ultimate narcissist, how the Ayurvedic fire of Pitta can completely burn us out, and how to use your root chakra to reclaim your boundaries before early September hits.

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Shelby Goldstein Shelby Goldstein

Why Slowing Down Feels So Hard (And Why You Probably Need It)

If slowing down makes you anxious, restless, or uncomfortable, you’re not doing it wrong. After long periods of stress and survival mode, stillness can feel unsafe. This post explores why rest is hard, how productivity becomes a coping mechanism, and how to rebuild nervous system regulation without forcing calm.

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